You probably misunderstood/skipped point 4 in your list, Initialize MySQL. It means to either copy an existing data directory there or to create a new one, see Initializing the Data Directory Manually Using mysqld .
To initialize a fresh data directory, you basically (after setting your config file) just have to run either
binmysqld --initialize
or
binmysqld --initialize-insecure
The latter will set an empty root password.
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