The kernel doesn't need to be odd. It's perfectly possible to define an even-sized kernel. When the kernel size is even, it is less obvious which of the pixels should be at the origin, but this is not a problem. You have seen mostly odd-sized filter kernels because they are symmetric around the origin, which is a good property.
Here is an example in MATLAB where we filter the image with a 4x4 averaging kernel (mean filter):
img = imread('cameraman.tif');
img = imfilter(img,fspecial('average',4));
imshow(img)
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