Take a look at the following system stored procedures, which you can run in SQLServer Management Studio (SSMS):
Also, in SSMS, you can view locks and processes in different ways:
Different versions of SSMS put the activity monitor in different places. For example, SSMS 2008 and 2012 have it in the context menu when you right-click on a server node.
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