You can append a random query parameter to the stylesheet url (for example via javascript or server side code).
It will not change the css file that is being loaded, but it will prevent caching, because the browser detects a different url and will not load the cached stylesheet.
<link rel="stylesheet" type="text/css" href="http://mysite/style.css?id=1234">
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