public class colSizes : List<double> { };
public colSizes[] grdSizes = new colSizes[3];
public DateTime dBegin = DateTime.Today;

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loadSizes(grd_ing, ref grdSizes[0]);
loadSizes(grd_hege, ref grdSizes[1]);
loadSizes(grd_buhege, ref grdSizes[2]);



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        private void loadSizes(ListView grd, ref colSizes cs)
        {   //记住比例
            if (cs == null) cs = new colSizes();
            cs.Clear();
            double nAll = 0;
            foreach (ColumnHeader itm in grd.Columns) nAll += itm.Width;
            foreach (ColumnHeader itm in grd.Columns) cs.Add(itm.Width / nAll);
        }

private void setAutoSize(ListView grd, colSizes cs)
        {   //自动适应宽度,-1根据内容设置宽度,-2根据标题设置宽度
            if (cs == null) return;
            for (int i = 0; i < Math.Min(cs.Count, grd.Columns.Count); i++)
                grd.Columns[i].Width = (int)Math.Round(grd.ClientSize.Width * cs[i], 0);
        }

private void FrmView_Resize(object sender, EventArgs e)
        {
            setAutoSize(grd_ing, grdSizes[0]);
            setAutoSize(grd_hege, grdSizes[1]);
            setAutoSize(grd_buhege, grdSizes[2]);
        }