Could you perhaps supply an example of what you currently have in your gridOptions and colunDefinitions/columns? Worth knowing is that if you are using autoGroupColumnDef inside gridOptions, that will be the defining columnDefinition overriding the one you normally supply into "columns".
I assume you looked into custom component-header for your issue?
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